Couple of months ago when Casanova asked me to setup a threesome, he told me to ask at least three different female friends of mine for their availability on the same time and day. I immediately realized that’s how he books his women from match.com. He would ask several people for the exact same time, hoping that one of them will be available for their first meeting/date. If he can’t meet any of them, he knows that he could call one of his so called “girlfriend” to come over. Since he has many lined up desperately wanting to see him, he can fill his evening with different women every single day. He sometimes gives me a choice of time (ex. 7am, 4pm, 7pm…) but never really books few days ahead. Womanizers gets bored easily, therefore wants a variety of women from younger to older, scientists, accountants, lawyers, engineers, doctors etc… he’s not only using them for sex, but he wants information from them. He always says to me “it’s business”, but these women have no idea that he’s using sex as a tool.
Casanova told me several times that he likes classy women, but what he actually meant was, he likes women who are inexperienced with men. He used to tell me what kind of clothes he likes, and that he loves high heels and makeup. When he sees his woman starting to change into his taste, he knows that he’s in control of her… If these women were experienced with men, they would know that she’s becoming a doll and losing her own taste. I’ve had a decent amount of boyfriends before Casanova, and have dated a crazy amount of men last year, but majority of them enjoyed the casual side of me versus the high heels and makeup… they liked to see me without a makeup, while Casanova enjoyed my makeup.
If women were experienced with men, she would know how womanizers act differently from real boyfriends. Real guys would keep asking for the next date, spend weekends together, and will let you leave your personal belongings at his place. It’s in a woman’s genes to purposely leave her things behind, but Casanova will make sure that she doesn’t, or will ALWAYS hide them if she did. I’ve seen so many evidences in his “playboy mansion” that I feel lucky to have found out about his womanizing (though it took me over four months to notice the red flags).
So why doesn’t Casanova’s women see the obvious? The answer is simple…she’s NAIVE… she somehow rationalizes that “prince charming” chose her for a reason… that she somehow is unique and special to win his heart…